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Relationship red flags and green flags
Sunny : In a couple, every little gesture counts! Even stealing the duvet. Especially stealing the duvet.
Life together is full of little signs. Some warm the heart, others raise an eyebrow. These situations come from our “Red flag or Green flag?” game: nothing assumes your gender or how you live together.
🚩 The red flags (18)
- 📺 Your partner watches the next episode of your show… without you. 🚩 Red flag · Season-finale-level betrayal.
- 🔐 Your partner goes through your phone while you shower. 🚩 Red flag · Trust isn’t hiding in your camera roll.
- 🎂 Your partner forgets your birthday but remembers their ex’s. 🚩 Red flag · The calendar has spoken. Loudly.
- 🕵️ Your partner wants to know who you’re texting, every message, in real time. 🚩 Red flag · It’s a relationship, not border control.
- 🥶 After a fight, your partner sulks for three days without saying why. 🚩 Red flag · Radio silence: terrible forecast for the relationship.
- 🕹️ You talk about your rough day; your partner answers without looking up from their game. 🚩 Red flag · Your day deserved at least a pause button.
- 🤭 In front of your friends, your partner tells your most embarrassing stories for laughs. 🚩 Red flag · Laugh with you, yes. At you, no.
- ✈️ Your partner books your vacation without asking you. 🚩 Red flag · Surprise! Oh wait, that’s just not asking.
- 📲 Your partner posts a cryptic story right after your fight. 🚩 Red flag · Their followers didn’t need the trailer.
- 🚪 At every disagreement, your partner threatens to leave. 🚩 Red flag · A relationship isn’t an escape room.
- 🔕 Your partner muted your messages. 🚩 Red flag · Even the neighborhood group chat ranks higher.
- 🚇 Your partner is always late, and it’s always “the train’s fault.” 🚩 Red flag · That train must be exhausted.
- 😒 Your partner rolls their eyes whenever you talk about work. 🚩 Red flag · Eye rolls should be reserved for stargazing.
- 📜 Your partner keeps a list of every mistake you’ve made since 2019. 🚩 Red flag · Elephant memory, grudge edition.
- 🧊 Your partner says “I’m fine” in the voice that means nothing is fine. 🚩 Red flag · Decoder required. Or, you know, talking.
- 💿 Your partner brings up the same old fight in every argument. 🚩 Red flag · That record has been scratched for years.
- 😬 Your partner criticizes your friends every time you see them. 🚩 Red flag · Your friends were here first. Just saying.
- 👕 Your partner decides what you’re wearing to the party. 🚩 Red flag · Your closet answers to one person: you.
💚 The green flags (17)
- ☕ Every morning, your partner makes your coffee exactly the way you like it. 💚 Green flag · Love is knowing the sugar ratio.
- 🧺 Your partner does the laundry unasked and even pairs the socks. 💚 Green flag · Matched socks: the true love language.
- 🕊️ After an argument, your partner comes back: “I thought about it. You were kind of right.” 💚 Green flag · “Kind of right” is huge. Frame it.
- 🛋️ Your partner is totally fine with you wanting a night to yourself. 💚 Green flag · Space isn’t distance.
- 💌 You find a little note from your partner in your coat pocket. 💚 Green flag · Better than finding cash. Almost.
- 🩺 Your partner asks how your doctor’s appointment went, no reminder needed. 💚 Green flag · The heart has a calendar too.
- 🧣 You’re having a meh day: your partner doesn’t try to fix it, just stays close. 💚 Green flag · Sometimes the best advice is a blanket.
- 🍳 Your partner cooks your favorite meal after your hectic week. 💚 Green flag · Gratitude goes through the stomach.
- 🧩 Your partner says: “I don’t agree, but I get where you’re coming from.” 💚 Green flag · Communication holy grail, found in your living room.
- 🧘 Your partner encourages you to see your friends, even without them. 💚 Green flag · Couples who breathe, last.
- 🏺 Your partner plans an outing around your hobby, even though it’s not their thing. 💚 Green flag · Pretending to love pottery is pure love.
- ⏸️ Mid-fight, your partner suggests: “Pause, and we talk again tonight?” 💚 Green flag · The pause button: secret weapon of calm couples.
- 🐕 Your partner lets you sleep in and walks the dog for you. 💚 Green flag · You and the dog both say thanks.
- 🥇 Your partner celebrates your tiny win like you won gold. 💚 Green flag · Your fan club has at least one very loud member.
- 🗝️ Your partner says: “You can tell me anything, even the annoying stuff.” 💚 Green flag · A safe space with snacks.
- 🌈 Your partner apologizes without adding “but.” 💚 Green flag · A no-“but” apology: a masterpiece.
- 💤 Your partner dims their screen so they don’t wake you. 💚 Green flag · Tiny gesture, great night.
⚖️ The debatable ones (10)
- 🌙 Your partner wakes you at 3 a.m. to ask if you’re asleep. ⚖️ Up for debate · Not anymore. Thanks for checking.
- 🍫 Your partner eats the last square of chocolate… but saves you half. ⚖️ Up for debate · Half a square: compromise or crime?
- 🌯 Your partner steals the whole duvet. Every. Night. ⚖️ Up for debate · The human burrito strikes again.
- ⭐ Your partner made a chore chart. With stickers. ⚖️ Up for debate · Home management, preschool style, max efficiency.
- 🎁 Your partner gets you a very practical gift: a vacuum cleaner. ⚖️ Up for debate · Romantic? No. Useful? Devastatingly.
- 🧦 Your partner leaves socks everywhere… arranged in heart shapes. ⚖️ Up for debate · Messy, but with an artist’s soul.
- 🍍 Your partner puts pineapple on the shared pizza without asking. ⚖️ Up for debate · Couples have survived worse. Not many.
- 🚿 Your partner sings off-key in the shower, every morning, full volume. ⚖️ Up for debate · The most heartfelt alarm clock on earth.
- 🐾 Your partner wants to adopt a third cat. You live in a studio. ⚖️ Up for debate · The cats have already voted yes.
- 📆 Your partner put your date nights in the shared calendar. With reminders. ⚖️ Up for debate · Romantic or bureaucratic? Both, and it works.
Play “Red flag or Green flag?” in Baromo
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Frequently asked questions
What is a red flag?
A little warning sign in someone’s behaviour. A green flag is the opposite: a reassuring sign. Here, we laugh about it, without judging anyone.
Who decides the verdict?
Our mascots give their take, but yours counts just as much. Some situations stay “up for debate”: that’s the whole point of playing with someone.